Do you find yourself lying awake at night thinking

Exhausted, unsure of what to do next, who to ask or where to turn.

Obsessing. Ruminating. Catastrophizing EVERYTHING.
The OVERWHELM. 

I can help.

Is this it?

There is               after divorce.

LET'S CHAT

The hours, days, months and sadly years trapped in the captivity of my emotions because of 

Psst...This isn't a              sentence.

The perceived failure, the loneliness and fear. Fear for myself, my future, my children. Worried about even MORE abandonment because there's only so much your friends and family can listen to. The constant voices inside my head flitting from wondering how I'm going to share my children to getting on dating apps left me flat out full of shame and angst.  that made me crazy and the feelings of hopelessness and disorientation…left me flat out filled full of 
 


my divorce.

shame and angst.

The UNCERTAINTY. There, I’ve said it.
 
The uncertainty paralyzes us. Not knowing if we are going to make it. 


life

life

TAKE MY HAND!

With a strategy & a framework you can REBUILD, REINVENT and REEMERGE stronger than ever before…

I'm living proof!

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Join the 100+ women from 9 countries who have rebuilt, reinvented and reclaimed their power with the 8 week online course

With our month-to-month subscription, you can "Drop-In" and ask any question in our private Zoom room for our weekly RECALIBRATE HOUR.

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Meet Heather

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Meet Gretchen

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A FEW OF YOUR sisters

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who have moved from

caged to changed.

This program is not about dragging it out. 

You are in pain.

It's about FASTER RESULTS.....GENERATIONS

So, what's really in this program?

Learn how to stop catastrophizing, obsessing/ruminating

Get rid of SHAME and GUILT

Gain clarity and emotional stability

Identify problematic and self limited patterns which cause self sabotage

Create an environment of structure and routine (how to set up an optimal ecosystem)

Learn how to diffuse highly emotive situations

Learn how to mitigate emotional triggers that cause them to go sideways

Gain in-depth knowledge of who they are at the foundational level

Learn what to avoid to mitigate the wash, rinse and repeat 

Reinvent and Architect a plan for their future

In this Program I use my Jedi-like mind hacks based in neuroscience coupled with my strategy background to help women:

8 Weeks

This is a DEEP DIVE and ONLY for those who are willing to roll up their sleeves, do the hard work and have a desire to REEMERGE strong. We're talking ULTRA COMMITTED who want RADICAL CHANGE.

I WANT RADICAL CHANGE

Freedom?

DO YOU WANNA TASTE THAT

My own divorce was expensive                              in EVERY area. Emotionally, mentally, financially and physically.

(unbelievably so)

I'm now on a MISSION to help free others so they won't waste months, years in the divorce wilderness. 

I walked thru the "valley of the shadow of death" thru my own emotionally charged and messy divorce, climbed out of the pit, ripped off the shirt of shame, activated my potential and reemerged strong and fierce bringing with me a wealth of intimate knowledge and expertise so that my clients can save literally years AND tears.   

I've got your back!

MEET YOUR

FEARLESS LEADER


I’m Hilary Porta, The Life Architect, Chief Shame Slayer, human behavior hacker and business alchemist. 

I am the Founder of R3 International, Inc. & Principal and CEO of H Porta Coaching, a leading-edge transformational company based out of NC with satellite offices in Ft. Lauderdale as well as the UK and France.


I am an international speaker (just shared the stage with Dr. Deepak Chopra) and a featured contributor to 25+ publications, including Forbes, Medium, Thrive Global, Elephant Journal, Tiny Buddha, Psych Alive, The Conscious Magazine, Divorce.com and a handful of other publications. I’ve been fortunate enough to serve several professional motorsports teams (Ferrari, Lamborghini, Mercedes) work with the NFL, NBA, elite force of several military branches, as well as startups to Fortune 500 companies and celebrities to teens struggling with anxiety.

I help shatter limits using brain based strategies and give them that unfair advantage whereby they can then harness their potential to create 6, 7 figure and 8 figure businesses but even deeper than that, putting the income aside, they can create more influence and impact create a ripple effect.

I wake up every single day with deep gratitude to walk in this sacred space.


Hey there Sister


You can stay a victim and lose valuable years or you can go from                            and turn
                          by using your divorce as an onramp. Architect your next season and create a generational impact.

caged to charged

loss to leverage

This is your

I WANT TO GO FROM CAGED TO CHARGED!

time.